Nice Guys vs Bad Guys

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Is it true the saying " Nice guys finish last" ?

We know that the nice guys end up often in the 'Friend Zone" but even women try to hide we do love nice guys with little roughness but sweet. What's the real deal?

Nice vs Bad!!!

Most everyone knows — or at least knows of — a stereotypical “bad boy.” He’s the guy with high self-esteem who wins over women with his charm and  impulsive behavior. Many girls also know a “nice guy,” someone’s who is always there for them and can make them feel special. Women typically say they want a nice guy, yet usually end up dating a bad boy. 

Have you ever dated a guy even though you knew he was a "bad boy" ???
Have you ever dated a "nice guy" just because you din't want drama????

I think we all have this nice guy close to us that we feel comfortable around , he make you laugh, he  is a gentleman, respectful, honest etc...but  no matter how nice he is you are not attracted to him and there few reasons why: There is a time and you can't lied that you didn't picture him being more than a nice friend but you think no matter how sweet he is if you are in a relationship with him he is too predictable and when we feel about men that way it can get boring.  Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad boy.

Bad to the Bone

Protective: Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women and most girls want a guy who will make them feel secure. 

A woman might “like it” when a nice guy does nice things ,but it doesn't make her feel ATTRACTED to that man. Well, guess what? It works the same way for “nice women.” Being a “nice girl” can’t “convince” a guy to like you or want you just because you do sweet things and are overly accommodating. In fact, it can actually “kill” any attraction that may have been there.

Are we intelligent enough to make the choice that's right for us or do we just simply always want what we can't have ? 

So which way is right , which way is wrong?  Nice vs Bad!!!

Do you believe in open relationships?

What does it really mean "Open Relationship" and is it possible?
Open relationship can be very tricky I think. Never experience but keep hearing from people that they are really happy with their OR but I am thinking just because I don't understand the concept I am not in a position to judge. 

What does it mean anyway? 
You are allow to have sex and date other people and don't really talk to your partner or you share your thoughts and feelings but stay together for............ ???? what??????
Why would you be with someone call it boyfriend or girlfriend and have OR at the same time? 
An open relationship allows both sides to date outside of the relationship without consequence and they are not required to be sexually exclusive to the other.When you agree that romantic or intimate relationship with another person is accepted, permitted  or tolerated and you are  in non-monogamous relationship, can you just have bunch of booty calls and no one get hurts at the end?

I just picturing this : My boyfriend comes home in the morning after night out and I ask him : 

Me: How was  your night baby? 
His answer: It was really cool. I met this hot chick and we made out in the bathroom but was nothing special , you know you are my dream woman and I love you very much
Me: That's cool. I know I am your woman and you love me very much. I am the luckiest woman in the world. Ok cool. Do you want some breakfast?

How can you truly love someone this way?
Is that normal? Am I old fashion if I don't understand this concept?

Love & Sex Department

If I have to be honest I have never been very good in the love department just recently I experience extreme situations of so much love and desire and somehow I felt wiser and passionate and everything I do or say comes so natural like I had it inside me my whole life but never came alive and now finally I can talk about and share with you. Some women think that because they are tomboys, powerful or simply strong personality they do not have love & passionate  emotions. We all have them and feel them is just how we consume it. Don't be afraid, I was one of you once. I always thought I don't need man to make me happy and I used most of them to get what I wanted SEX. But then I discover passion and love making instead of hit and run. You can still have boy toys ( who doesn't love them) but even if you do have him for few hours  make the best time of your life feel the passion, the need, be vulnerable , let it all out....

Asking for what you want is worth the embarrassment.Don't worry about your orgasm  you will chase it away if  you think too much. Fell and live the moment. Yes you can give him a hand nothing wrong with that. I know a lot of women don't like to make love with lights on but you always have to be confident in yourself the way your vagina looks, however is perfectly normal.Every woman have a super-fire making position-find yours.I will reveal a little secret of mine.Some of my favorite positions are 

The Butterfly , The Splitting Bamboo, The Hero and couple more :-) 

Learn how to please yourself first. Don't have sex before you are turn on. Don't be afraid to be sexual. 

Spend the weekend day with your man. Book a room for only one night at the local hotel.

Go wild. I dare you............

Just a thought 

Do men like women who are playing hard to get or do they prefer easy fix?

These days we have so many options available and we have easy access to so many tasty temptations.

Do men like women who are playing hard to get or do they prefer easy fix and not too much complications?

Do you think women who play hard to get are more worth it at the end? Maybe because they know who they are and what they want. This is something that can intriguer men but how far can we go before he gave up and we end up empty handed  just because we played it wrong. Well I think a good advice to women is to ,first you should know that playing hard to get gives men something to fight for. We all know how much men like a good challenge and when you say " No you can't" that's the time when he will get extremely motivate it just to prove a point, so you can be sure if a men wants the challenge he will do nothing but win it......... well of course if he thinks you are worth it, so before you challenge him make sure that you know who you are, what you want and what you getting yourself into. After the whole chase when man get inside your pants they can breathe easier and they think that the chase is over and he won.....well now is up to you if you want to give up or you want to take the lead because once he is inside let him know with your body language that he got what he wanted it but be smart and use your POP to be the winner. You sure will get your ego boost, but be careful sometimes too hard to get can be big turn off for a man.

My advice to all women who are playing hard to get : Get rid off the shity attitude, be more confident in yourself, and don't try to prove a point at the end you will get laid and you will be giving 5 minutes blow job, so no matter what you do and how you do it if you want to win you still can do it but don't waste precious time while you can be having amazing orgasm and be the coolest bitch. Before you start hard to get games make sure you know the rules. Knowing how to pay hard with a guy can be the difference between keeping the guy interested and loosing him.

Good sex and talk or long term security?

Would you rather have relationship based on good sex and communication but not too serious or less sex, daily routine & conversations but long term security? How do you really know how long is long term?
It is interesting how we fell in love with stranger , then this person became someone we can't live without  and once the love is gone this person became the stranger we met while back at the bar.
Don't make it too complicated no one will get out alive anyway.
I am thinking hot and sexy, good talk and good wine. Looking back trying to figure this out was just a waste of time.