Good sex and talk or long term security?

Would you rather have relationship based on good sex and communication but not too serious or less sex, daily routine & conversations but long term security? How do you really know how long is long term?
It is interesting how we fell in love with stranger , then this person became someone we can't live without  and once the love is gone this person became the stranger we met while back at the bar.
Don't make it too complicated no one will get out alive anyway.
I am thinking hot and sexy, good talk and good wine. Looking back trying to figure this out was just a waste of time.

Friends with benefits ( FWB)

No strings attached relationship??? As long as you know what you are getting  into. Is it  that easy to say
" See ya later baby"...and just walk out without any feelings involved? Few things are worth it : walk of shame is not that embarrassing, won't have to worry driving home after one too many glasses of wine, bed time is sexy , silly and fun. On the other side how can we keep ourselves from not falling in love?
Before you make this decision of No strings-attached arrangement make sure that you understand that you can't make him your boyfriend dream and don't think you will change his mind. Don't get mad if your FWB goes out with someone else.He is not cheating on you. Agreed? After several sexy hot nights with your FWB you start wonder if you should go out for coffee, see a movie.....but I say no. Don't do it. Unless you both have feelings and want more from this FWB relationship. Make sure you protect yourself because while your FWB have no responsibilities to you is just sex. So don't be stupid and think that he is only sleeping with you. He is not. You know that but is good to admit it to yourself. Use protection. Don't convince yourself the relationship is more serious than it is. Saying no is ok, saying yes is ok. Just be clear how far can go.....and very simple "Don't hate the players, hate the game"

What do guys prefer boobs or butt ?

I know most of you will say BOTH of course but there must be first choice and higher preference. Two men's favorite things. They belong together like butter and Nutella . Some men are lucky enough to have a woman with good boobs and sexy ass that turn heads around. Some guys like small asses , some like big butts and some don't care as long is sexy in their eyes. Boobs , just about the same, big , sexy , small, nipple preference.Would you rather have shelf rack flat boobs with jelly  round butt  or Triple D and hard time to breath with cottage cheese ass? However, what if you could only have one? 

Phone sex - YES PLEASE!!!

                                         

Phone sex is the perfect way to make passionate connection when you are apart. Use your imagination, describe your detail fantasies. At first can be little bit uncomfortable and tongue tied but when you lose in up  lie back  close your eyes and picture his fingers all over your body . Play with them everywhere and anywhere. You will feel so in harmony, ecstatic and wet. And if you don't feel comfortable you should ask your man to take the Lead  and you should concentrate to every word he said.  Be careful it can be very slippery so make sure you leave the phone in a safe place but close enough to hear his voice.You will be surprise how easy you can reach an orgasm and relief your tension :-)  Now call him & do him ;-) and get ready for Girls night Out.                                    

Ladies why can't we speak openly about using vibrator?

People always talk about kinky staff and wild performances behind doors but why we can't open up and express loud out how we really feel outside the bedroom. Vibrator is one the best pleasurable creation and even the first one was made in  year 1734 we still have hesitation to talk about it and feel ashamed.
Masturbation can improve your mood without any obligation. You can have multiple orgasm. Can relax you and make you  more affectionate. Definitely can improve your sex life with your partner. Even better vibrator doesn't talk, doesn't control you ( you are the one in control) , always available and never get tired to go all night long :-) So instead of hiding it in the closet take it all  out use it, abuse it , consume it ........Oh yes and one more thing give him a name make it more personal in a sexual fascinating way.

Why do we always question our happiness?

Why do we always  ask questions and look for a reasons for our happiness?  We often ask ourselves when everything seems to be perfect is it too good to be true? 
I think is possible, actually I know it is because I am living it. Nothing is perfect and nothing is forever but when is reality I except it and I don't ask questions. Why we always get scare more from happiness and joy than from fear and pain. Once you feel happy and find yourself smile for no reason why do you have to ask why. Instead ask yourself WHY NOT? 
You deserve to be happy, to smile and to enjoy life the way is giving to you. You attract what you create. If you create happiness surround you that's what you going to get back. The feeling is just amazing when  you realize that you are above the small problems and answer with positive attitude. You happiness depends on your approach of life. When everything is good in your life don't try to find something or don't try to create the reason not to be, because when you looking for something you will find it but is it that what you are looking for or you are just afraid to face reality. You are saying " This is too good to be true" so does that mean you want to be unhappy, miserable and sad  to be more believable or do you want to enjoy these happy days and look forward for tomorrow? I know maybe is hard to except that is just too good to be true when your girlfriend is Hot, Smart, Hard Worker, Good cook, Love to clean and wash  dishes, Doesn't want any gifts just your love, Tells you everyday I love you and on top of all that she gives you the best blow job ever and always horny for you......TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE. Well yes I can see why you are afraid because is too much of a good but how about if you don't look for any reasons and stop question why is so good . Don't be afraid to be happy and to be loved. 
You have a reason to smile and once you make it a habit there is nothing that can make you cry. Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows. Is just so simple don't make it complicated. Don't think about if one day will be over think about how can you keep it longer. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

How do you know if your feelings are real?

Feeling you inside doesn't mean that you understand my needs. Listening to my words doesn't mean that you understand what I am saying. Kissing me doesn't mean that we connect. How do you really know when you have the real physical attraction and connection to your partner?
What is that thing can really lift you up of our feet and make you fly?

Before you answer these questions ask yourself  what is the meaning  to you and the definition of Love, Good Sex, Good Conversation  and a Friendship.
Love comes in different forms Love for your family, Love for your friends ,Love for you pets and Love for your partner. Love doesn't come as easy as sex or words. Love can take a lifetime to understand and feel  build based on respect, trust , attraction and communication.
A girl told me once " I went out last night and I met this guy OMG, he was so good in bed the best sex I ever had" , and I can see her sparkle in her eyes and the desire for more ... I have to be honest that made me horny :-) and then she said " I am so in Love" . Oh no girlfriend this is not LOVE. Just because you opened the safety box and your Vagina went on testosterone diet  blowing the whistle and saw your falling  star doesn't mean that you are in Love it means that you can probably will experience unpleasant itch, sleepless nights waiting for the phone to ring and broken heart hopping that the next one it's going to be different.
Make the difference between FUCK AND LOVE.
You experience LOVE when you touch the person you can actually feel it not only in the moment but in the future, the feeling of I want to touch you forever or when you kiss the person you want never to end, or when you make love you can actually have a real orgasm and you don't have to fake it in order not to hurt his ego.
I will explain and be very detail of how a woman and man really know if they are in LOVE..............next blog