Friends with benefits ( FWB)

No strings attached relationship??? As long as you know what you are getting  into. Is it  that easy to say
" See ya later baby"...and just walk out without any feelings involved? Few things are worth it : walk of shame is not that embarrassing, won't have to worry driving home after one too many glasses of wine, bed time is sexy , silly and fun. On the other side how can we keep ourselves from not falling in love?
Before you make this decision of No strings-attached arrangement make sure that you understand that you can't make him your boyfriend dream and don't think you will change his mind. Don't get mad if your FWB goes out with someone else.He is not cheating on you. Agreed? After several sexy hot nights with your FWB you start wonder if you should go out for coffee, see a movie.....but I say no. Don't do it. Unless you both have feelings and want more from this FWB relationship. Make sure you protect yourself because while your FWB have no responsibilities to you is just sex. So don't be stupid and think that he is only sleeping with you. He is not. You know that but is good to admit it to yourself. Use protection. Don't convince yourself the relationship is more serious than it is. Saying no is ok, saying yes is ok. Just be clear how far can go.....and very simple "Don't hate the players, hate the game"

What do guys prefer boobs or butt ?

I know most of you will say BOTH of course but there must be first choice and higher preference. Two men's favorite things. They belong together like butter and Nutella . Some men are lucky enough to have a woman with good boobs and sexy ass that turn heads around. Some guys like small asses , some like big butts and some don't care as long is sexy in their eyes. Boobs , just about the same, big , sexy , small, nipple preference.Would you rather have shelf rack flat boobs with jelly  round butt  or Triple D and hard time to breath with cottage cheese ass? However, what if you could only have one? 

Phone sex - YES PLEASE!!!

                                         

Phone sex is the perfect way to make passionate connection when you are apart. Use your imagination, describe your detail fantasies. At first can be little bit uncomfortable and tongue tied but when you lose in up  lie back  close your eyes and picture his fingers all over your body . Play with them everywhere and anywhere. You will feel so in harmony, ecstatic and wet. And if you don't feel comfortable you should ask your man to take the Lead  and you should concentrate to every word he said.  Be careful it can be very slippery so make sure you leave the phone in a safe place but close enough to hear his voice.You will be surprise how easy you can reach an orgasm and relief your tension :-)  Now call him & do him ;-) and get ready for Girls night Out.                                    

Ladies why can't we speak openly about using vibrator?

People always talk about kinky staff and wild performances behind doors but why we can't open up and express loud out how we really feel outside the bedroom. Vibrator is one the best pleasurable creation and even the first one was made in  year 1734 we still have hesitation to talk about it and feel ashamed.
Masturbation can improve your mood without any obligation. You can have multiple orgasm. Can relax you and make you  more affectionate. Definitely can improve your sex life with your partner. Even better vibrator doesn't talk, doesn't control you ( you are the one in control) , always available and never get tired to go all night long :-) So instead of hiding it in the closet take it all  out use it, abuse it , consume it ........Oh yes and one more thing give him a name make it more personal in a sexual fascinating way.

Why do we always question our happiness?

Why do we always  ask questions and look for a reasons for our happiness?  We often ask ourselves when everything seems to be perfect is it too good to be true? 
I think is possible, actually I know it is because I am living it. Nothing is perfect and nothing is forever but when is reality I except it and I don't ask questions. Why we always get scare more from happiness and joy than from fear and pain. Once you feel happy and find yourself smile for no reason why do you have to ask why. Instead ask yourself WHY NOT? 
You deserve to be happy, to smile and to enjoy life the way is giving to you. You attract what you create. If you create happiness surround you that's what you going to get back. The feeling is just amazing when  you realize that you are above the small problems and answer with positive attitude. You happiness depends on your approach of life. When everything is good in your life don't try to find something or don't try to create the reason not to be, because when you looking for something you will find it but is it that what you are looking for or you are just afraid to face reality. You are saying " This is too good to be true" so does that mean you want to be unhappy, miserable and sad  to be more believable or do you want to enjoy these happy days and look forward for tomorrow? I know maybe is hard to except that is just too good to be true when your girlfriend is Hot, Smart, Hard Worker, Good cook, Love to clean and wash  dishes, Doesn't want any gifts just your love, Tells you everyday I love you and on top of all that she gives you the best blow job ever and always horny for you......TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE. Well yes I can see why you are afraid because is too much of a good but how about if you don't look for any reasons and stop question why is so good . Don't be afraid to be happy and to be loved. 
You have a reason to smile and once you make it a habit there is nothing that can make you cry. Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows. Is just so simple don't make it complicated. Don't think about if one day will be over think about how can you keep it longer. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

How do you know if your feelings are real?

Feeling you inside doesn't mean that you understand my needs. Listening to my words doesn't mean that you understand what I am saying. Kissing me doesn't mean that we connect. How do you really know when you have the real physical attraction and connection to your partner?
What is that thing can really lift you up of our feet and make you fly?

Before you answer these questions ask yourself  what is the meaning  to you and the definition of Love, Good Sex, Good Conversation  and a Friendship.
Love comes in different forms Love for your family, Love for your friends ,Love for you pets and Love for your partner. Love doesn't come as easy as sex or words. Love can take a lifetime to understand and feel  build based on respect, trust , attraction and communication.
A girl told me once " I went out last night and I met this guy OMG, he was so good in bed the best sex I ever had" , and I can see her sparkle in her eyes and the desire for more ... I have to be honest that made me horny :-) and then she said " I am so in Love" . Oh no girlfriend this is not LOVE. Just because you opened the safety box and your Vagina went on testosterone diet  blowing the whistle and saw your falling  star doesn't mean that you are in Love it means that you can probably will experience unpleasant itch, sleepless nights waiting for the phone to ring and broken heart hopping that the next one it's going to be different.
Make the difference between FUCK AND LOVE.
You experience LOVE when you touch the person you can actually feel it not only in the moment but in the future, the feeling of I want to touch you forever or when you kiss the person you want never to end, or when you make love you can actually have a real orgasm and you don't have to fake it in order not to hurt his ego.
I will explain and be very detail of how a woman and man really know if they are in LOVE..............next blog

One Night Stand - The Morning After ( GIRLS ONLY)

Ladies, I know chances are, you've been in this situation. Or, if you're too goody-goody to admit it, you've had a "friend" who was in the same situation. It's nothing to be ashamed of, either way. It's not something you want to share at the Thanksgiving dinner table with all your relatives either, but at one point or another, the majority of us have had a one-night stand. Whether it be a drunken blur from a fraternity party or a flirtation from across the bar that went a bit too far, and you wake up to find yourself next to a guy that looked a lot more like Leonardo DiCaprio ten shots ago, you find yourself in the ultimate of awkward situations. No matter if it was your call for this to happen or his you both end up in the same bed and be honest with yourself YOU had sex with the stranger. Yes the morning after can be very awkward no matter how great sex was but don't lose your cool, whatever you do, and just follow the following set of guidelines which will help you get through this moment.

Absolutely my number ONE advice
If possible, try to leave before he wakes up. It will make you that much more mysterious. And if he really likes you, he'll attempt to find you. He'll ask around, maybe go again to the same fraternity house or bar that you met at, and he'll look for you. Guys will go to great lengths for a girl they really view as worth the effort.

Don't give him the whole "I've never done this before" routine. That will just make him more likely to think of this as a repeat activity for you. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone. You know in your heart whether or not this is in your nature, and it can be your little secret. No one needs to know how many strangers you've gone home with on multiple occasions. You should feel free to forget that number too, if you like. And if the guy asks you if you've done this before, simply say, "It's not normally my nature," give him a smile, and change the subject. Enough said.

Don't overstay your welcome. You wake up, look at the clock, and you should already be glancing around the room, eyeing your belongings. Don't wait around in bed, especially after he gets up. Don't hang out while he takes a shower either. When the guy leaves the room to take his shower, he secretly is hoping that you will leave during that period of time. Unless he specifically indicates that he would like you to stick around, don't assume. Another indicator of him wanting you to stay would be if he actually invited you to shower with him. I still say you should leave, even when offered the invite.Plus, that shower could be just another testosterone-filled excuse so he can score an extra morning session before he starts his day.

Don't attempt to engage him in conversation. Not all guys are morning people, and having a conversation with a stranger you just woke up next to can be one of the strangest and most uncomfortable experiences. If you find that he's answering you without really answering meaning no interesting answers that's your indicator right there that he just doesn't want to talk. And if you feel that you just must chat with him, don't mention the hook-up, the future, or anything touchy in that aspect. You'll only make him that much more eager to have you leave.

Don't offer to leave your number or ask him to call you. When men want something, they will get it themselves. If he has any intention of calling you, he will ask that you write down your number before you leave. Obviously if you say to him, "Do you want my number?" he's going to feel bad if he says no, so any male would feel the safer choice would be to have you write down your digits, and then they just go straight into the trashcan. And you will be waiting by the phone for a call that will never come!

If he does invite you for breakfast or to hang out, even if you really want to, thank him but turn down the offer. If he has any real interest in you, he will try to set up a future date with you. Besides, do you really want to sit across from the table from him in broad daylight with last night's makeup still on your face?

If you don't remember his name, don't ask him what it is. That will look very bad on your part. See if he remembers yours first. That's a true indicator as to how much interest he really has in you.

If you happen to wake up in his house and find yourself heading down the "Walk of Shame", don't act embarrassed or ashamed. Simply roll your eyes, act like you couldn't care less, and walk out with your head straight up in the air. You have nothing to be ashamed about because you wanted that as much as he did.

Don't ask him "how you were" last night. Chances are, he probably doesn't remember. And if he does, he will say something about it.

Don't get on your cell phone while you get dressed in front of him and tell your friend that you're "in some random guy's room and can't remember how crazy last night was." Save the gossip for when you have left and are well under way.

One-Night stands sometimes are the best sex you ever had. Who says this is a man thing? We women can actually do it much better . Look at you, smile at you, talked you to it, show you affection, suck you in, spin you around and spit you out. Now keep your head up when you do the walk of shame because you got what you want it :-)