Sunday, March 17, 2013

6 Simple Tips for simultaneous orgasms


6 Simple Tips for simultaneous orgasms
Take enough time to "prepare" for sex.

First:  various love games. Do not get stuck on the same thing. Do not be afraid to try.
Second tip is to enjoy what is happening, without thinking about the finish, you risk a lot to do remote.
Third : Spend equal attention to all parts of the body and do not ignore the erogenous zones.
Forth: is to choose the correct posture, the most profitable - each pair has its own position and his/her sex game.
Fifth: Do not be afraid to show how best they can meet favorite. Only you know what brings you the greatest pleasure and what less.
Six: Sex toys? Of course! Do not waste time, buy them with or without reason.

What's Your Love Type?


Do you prefer fun date with lots of activities or quiet date with lots of opportunities for conversation?  A lot of times when people are  dating casually they tend to date more than one person I always wonder why. Why do we call this dating if it can just simply be booty call???? There are two kinds of first date types: A very private person and the one that opens up very quickly. I think that less is more and if you say everything on a first date what else is left to say for the second one? if there is a second one. Take the advice if you are interested in the person you are with instead of talking out of your ass all night in order to make an imprecision or just to get laid - simply observe and make sure that when you open your mouth you actually say something. When you go on a first date make sure that you know what you want if you prefer to take things as they come play it well so you don't waste time or plan everything ahead of time. A lot of people follow certain rules on a first date (like the guy should pay for the first date or no sex until the third date) bullshit....just go with the flow. Yes the guy should pay on a first date, second, third .....why not if he invited you and the person who says "I never have sex on a first date" is the first person to get unzip and get laid, why because your vagina or penis are hard to control when they are hungry. They are like a cherry blossom in April. Once they bloom they need liquid to survive. What is going to happen if you know that there is no tomorrow and you are on a date full with rules??? Are you going to miss good sex, sensensual  orgasm and beautiful sunrise...??? I don't think so. Stop thinking about rules that some stupid miserable person created while jerking off at midnight on Saturday night watching Dr.Phil. Live your life to the fullest. 
When evaluating a first date, do you ask yourself: "Can I see a future with that person"? or "Did I have a good time"? . These are two very different things. Make the difference and you will get the answer. 

Have fun :-) 

Saturday, March 16, 2013

PICTURE PERFECT

When you are in NYC I am sure you have seen the street artist drawing a portrait. Once I was there with my boyfriend at the time and did it and took about 30 minutes to complete. Turn out beautiful and made him smile........BUT ladies let's be honest no man like to witness the process for picture perfect. Men have no patience for that.MEN likes to see the finish product. So when you are with the man that you really care about and want to keep him for a long time make sure that he always see picture perfect. Wear make up ,sexy clothes and sometimes mop the floor in a high heels and while you doing this make sure that you use POP language.Why not?  He maybe won't say how he feels about that but for sure he will show you his affection. Men are good reading woman body language when she is talking without words.
Are Men All the same? ........not really but one thing you know is that " You are fabulous" SHOW IT, USE IT, OWN IT!!!

WHAT ARE YOUR SEX EXPECTATIONS?


All couples enter marriage with their sex expectations regarding frequency, endurance, performance, sex positions, locations, and what types of sex you will engage in. The stereotype is that most men dream about their wife being that wonderful classy lady in public but a woman gone wild in bed ready to attempt any sexual act possible. In reality, many times it is the wife who has these sexual flames of desire for her husband and how he will be a Tarzan in the bedroom. It is not always the man who has the strongest sexual desires.
Almost every couple wants a healthy and fun sex life. How about you? Why are you putting off talking about your sex expectations? These expectations can be silent for years in a marriage creating frustrations that show up in many areas of the marriage. I disagree with those that say sex is not that important in marriage and relationship. If it is not important why can it create serious frustrations and issues in marriage? Also, if it is not important then why do couples with good sex have healthier relationships and lives? Research proves that good sex helps make a good marriage.
What are your Sex expectations?

Friday, March 15, 2013

Be the type of person you would like to meet.


I am Bulgarian. I have an accent and sometimes I spell wrong but so what? I don’t have psychology degree I speak out loud and I have my opinion about life, relationship and sex. I speak from experience, street smart and knowledge that you can’t learn from books but one thing I know that many people come to me for advice of counseling. Couples, individuals, men, women, teens. I think that everyone deserves to feel better. Unfortunately life happens and throws us a curve ball. This can leave us feeling out of sorts. We try to put our life "back together" as best we can seek help from family or friends. Sometimes this is not enough. This is where I come in, helping you find a way to make a run even if life pitches you one curve ball after another. At times it will be difficult and you may feel like you struck out but with practice, guidance, and uncovering inner strength you can make a run maybe even a homerun. The only people who are mad at me for speaking the truth are people who are living a lie. I will keep speaking the truth.There’s nothing more badass than being who you are.

How a conflict can strengthen your relationship

When a conflict occurs it is usually about being  right or wrong on a subject that you think you know more about than your partner or simply different visions on a specific subject you argue about.You think that if you don't take control of the decisions been made or direction you are going it will have negative effects. This is absolutely normal defense reaction you feel like you have been attack and you have to protect yourself. Well instead of make it the situation worst and keep fighting about and trying to defend your point try to understand the other side and the reason of his/her opinion. What would you win when you lose? Peace. That doesn't mean that you have to give up and let the other side  win just to have peace, you have to express yourself and speak out and if the other side  still doesn't get the point take a deep breath and walk away for 10 minutes the argument is pointless and don't ask yourself why he/she doesn't understand we are all different people with different visions we see things differently just think if the argument is really worth it. You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. After 10 minutes alone come back to your partner and you will have the answer if the fight was worth it or not. One thing you will really learn about each other is respect of each side opinion, strong communication skills and how much you love each other to argue about stupid things. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

DRESS FOR HIM IF YOU WANT GOOD SEX

One simple tip  for the ladies if you want to have a healthy sexual relationship: Always dress for him first, ask him if you look good and if he like what you are wearing. Men feel more powerful and happy when he knows that his opinion matter. His approval is important not only for you but for himself as well. When you get the answer : "Yes honey you look fantastic"  make sure you give him a kiss , grab his butt and walk away with a smile. Mission accomplished for him. First he feels like a Superman because you asked his opinion and you actually agreed,second he knows he has a hot chick next to him and he loves it. So you know now that you are sexy for your man, second he won't have a eyes for other women and third get ready for a good night and great sex .....Go girl