Type of Women That Most Men Come Across

Appearance in this case is not everything!



Sex with a beautiful woman is a dream that potentially every straight man at some point of his life was able to come true. It is wrong, however, to believe that the sexual skills of a man is measured against the number of beautiful women is fascinating between the sheets.
But does it really the sexiest women give more pleasure to a man or is it overrated?

There is a few type of women that most men come across:

1.The woman who tries too hard

2. The woman who is afraid.

3. The woman, who did not move.

4. The woman who is trying to do something.

5. The woman who knows what she's doing.

The Less attractive woman the better sex experience you can get because she try hard to pleasure the Man. So if you don't go for super model every time you are looking for sex or attention you may happen to experience better sexual satisfaction.   

Think about it..........

What Women Want in a Man

What makes women happy? Hot sexy guy? Great listener or good talker? Good lover????Below answers are my opinion, you don't have to agree but you should you read it. You may learn something :-) One thing I know for sure is this doctor seriously need to get out there and instead of confusing men with his advice below he should  really try it first for himself. OK MEN take it from a WOMAN with dating experience. Read his advice and read mine. You tell me which is more acquire it these days.

I read an article today by Dr. M. Gary Neuman, family counselor and author of “Connect to Love,” who, based on his research, gave us some insights on what women want.

http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/5-things-women-want-most-man

DR.M Gray: Time: Of all the things we talk about women wanting, time with their spouse is it. The vast majority of women in happy relationships get 30 minutes of uninterrupted time with their husbands each day. Twenty-four percent of women who claim to be in unhappy relationships spend fewer than five minutes a day with their spouses.

Galina: Seriously. Time. 5 Minutes. Come on. If you are in a relationship how can you possibly spend only 5 minutes with that person. Let's start counting  "Hi honey. How was your day" 1 minute. Grab his ass and give him a kiss 30 seconds. 3 Minutes talk about their day. She have 30 seconds left. Ok going to a shower goodnight. If you really have that type of relationship you should face it you are going to be alone for the rest of your life. But if Doctor M Gray meant 5 minutes of  Hi baby.... Blow job and shot of Tequila I agree with him but I don't think he meant that, so you tell me what kind of woman can give only 5 minutes for her man??? I can tell you, a WOMAN that  is getting it somewhere else but not from your pants. Thank you Dr.M Gray you really know how to approach cheaters. 

DR.M Gray: Time: Appreciation: Nowadays, women take care of the children and make salaries, and they tend to be very underappreciated. Women should be expressive of what makes them feel appreciated, saying, “These are the kinds of things I like … x, y and z.” Men should listen, and women should tune in when their husbands are appreciative.

Galina: Yes of course every woman need appreciation, I can not agree more and most men need to hear what we want  in order to react. I have previous experience in this matter, but sometimes MEN show their appreciation in their own way. I know a lot of women who say " He doesn't appreciate anything I do for him" or " He never do anything I want" Trust me I was one of these women once in my life, but you know what I learned that in a relationship you do things for your partner without expectations and if you expect anything back this is not a real love. If that person loves you she/he will find the way to show you appreciation. One thing you should never forget Appreciation is a wonderful thing: It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well. So boys Show her respect, tell her you love her, call her beautiful, protect her in any way you can.

DR.M Gray:  Understanding: It’s important for women to have men who understand them. It’s also important for women to help men understand how to listen. Men often don’t have a clue they’re being bad listeners.

Women have to sense a time limit to conversation. More often than not, men are sitting there thinking, “When is this going to end?” I would say 15 to 20 minutes, max. Women should say to their husbands, “It’s 8:00 p.m.; I need you to listen until 8:20 p.m.” Women may deserve 10 hours, but most men are not the best at listening to serious, emotional conversations that go on.

Galina: This is absolutely bullshit. MEN DO NOT UNDERSTAND WOMEN AND THEY NEVER WILL. We are different animals. Men pretend to understand  women for few reasons: He doesn't want to be lonely, he wants to get laid, have female opinion so he can argue with someone, feel more powerful, get what he wants, have peace and so and so....but if you missing the vagina you will never understand women,  don't even try and Dr. M Gray I bet you that there is no one woman in this world that ever said "He is perfect" He understand me completely>...and if this woman exist I want to meet her. So MEN, don't take it personally but you will never understand women completely. At one point there will be a moment when you say " I really don't understand women" ...Happened many times isn't??? 

DR.M Gray: Fun: This is one of those things that often goes out the window, especially after the first child is born. All the factors like jobs, rents or mortgages can add to relationship strain. Couples should set up a date night — once every week, even if they are tired — during which they spend a minimum of two hours alone. During this time, the couple should talk about everything BUT work, money and children.

Galina: I agree with Dr.M Gray on this FUN is very important but don't make it feel like a date night and feel awkward make it worth the while. Do something totally out of the ordinary you know better what that is.  

DR.M Gray:Kind Gestures: Hugs, kisses, unexpected telephone calls to say "I love you." Simple things. I suggest five touch points a day for one week — any kind gesture that takes 30 seconds or less. If a man can do this for his partner for one week, both will be amazed at how much better they feel in the relationship.

Galina: Don't make it look as a duty. Do it because you feel it and you want it. Very important to have physical  contact on a daily bases. I love you messages every day is good but sometimes can be annoying  I am not saying that won't make us feel good of course yes but saying it and showing it are two different things so make sure if you say it every day and when you go home you put your feet on a table and wait for  your woman to bring you a beer and tell her I love you, do you really thing that will do the magic...NO, instead when you get home  bring her a flower or a chocolate once in a while and before she even say anything take her clothes off and have crazy sex on a kitchen table.....back up your words and trust me she will bring you not only beer but you will get also a blow job while you are drinking it :-) 

Women Want Most in a Man by my opinion:

1. Man who knows what he wants 
2. Sex 7 times a week minimum
3. Compliments
4. Trust
5. Good conversation
6. Respect
7. Fun
8. Good manners
9. Responsible
10. A man who is ambitious

How to Keep a Relationship Fresh

1.Make love often and with passion. The beauty of a long term sexual relationship is that the intimacy builds over the years. That intimacy makes sex much more genuine, gratifying and fulfilling. It is also an area that is not often put high on the importance scale. Work, career, school, and kids often exhaust our energy so we find it hard to “be in the mood." Make the intimate part of your relation a high priority. Make time for “love sessions." Take time to “make love” rather than just have sex. Use candles, perfume, or whatever that is that get your juices flowing. Like all else in life, intimacy dies if it is not nourished. Feeding it with affection, compliments and time will make it something that feels less like an obligation at the end of a hard day, but something to look forward to.

2.Take advantage of new technology; text and send e-cards. With so many of us pressed for time, why not use technology to “keep in touch” during the day. A compliment, an affection or a quick “Hello, You are being thought of” via text can spark anyone’s day. E-cards are fast, and convenient. There are many sites that allow you to send them for free. You can find any type of sentiment from cute and funny, to serious and romantic or teasingly sexy. The bonus is that you can include a personal message along with it if you’d like.

3.Hold hands, hug and give quick kisses often. Nothing is as good for the soul and the emotional health of a person as the human touch. As teenagers, we hold hands, give quick kisses as hello and goodbye and cuddle as we sit close. Why not keep that sense of youth no matter how old we are or how long we have been have together as a couple? Holding hands keeps a connection and closeness, no matter what we are doing. An enthusiastic hug uplifts us; a quick kiss says “glad to see you”.

4.Date often. Make dates and anticipate them with excitement. Dress up and look your best. Discover a new cologne or perfume. Set the stage as if you are trying to “impress” the way you did at the beginning of the relationship. If your budget limits you to a rental movie at home, change it up. Set out cheese and crackers instead of the usual popcorn. Turn off the lights and let your fireplace illuminate the room. No fireplace? Candles do just as well. The point is to set the atmosphere of a date. The desire to look your best, feel your best and have the best time possible will rejuvenate those feelings of a first date.

5. Write old fashioned love letters. There is nothing like the power of the written word. The idea that a person would sit and attempt to convey their feeling through words is not only a heart warming gesture, but one that can be renewed over and over again through each reread. When you need an emotional lift, you can revisit them and instantly get the emotional recharge. Rereading a partner’s love letters instantly brings you to the intensity when the relationship was young. Writing letters throughout the relationship tells your partner those feelings are still alive and well.

6.Learn something “new” together.

7. Take dance lessons, take an art class or learn to ice skate together! Take a day trip to a new place neither of you have ever visited before. If you look back on your life, you probably connected with people whom you shared new events or experiences, something you experienced together for the first time. Those experiences create closeness. Find something that can be a “first” for the two of you. You might also develop a new interest the two of you can enjoy!


8.Strengthen your art of conversation. If you find yourself with “nothing to talk about anymore”, find something to start the conversation. Fill your partner in on the “funny“ things that happened at work, the gossip; anything trivial and interesting. Remember, we all need to use our partners as a “sounding board," but if that is the only conversation that we are having with our “significant other," even the most sympathetic listener can have a breaking point. Make “sharing your day” a pleasure event, not a dreaded evil.

9. Be a good listener. There still is the time when your partner will need you to be there, just to listen. You have probably heard the joke a thousand times and heard the family issue twice that often, so listening to your partner is not always easy. The extra effort, however, can be priceless. Remember, often people don’t want their problems solved, just a shoulder to lean on. Taking away the burden of “fixing it," might make it easier.

10. Take care of yourself; mind, body and spirit. Be passionate about life. There is truth to the belief that if we nourish the child in us our spirits can stay young, even when our outer body doesn’t. Stay young in mind and spirit. Take care of your health, emotional and physical. It is much easier to keep a relationship young when you exude that aura yourself. Start by keeping yourself “young at heart."

Life Without Affection is Not Worth Living

THE BEST WAY TO HOLD A MAN IS IN YOUR ARMS

Does happiness comes from success and love?

Yes of course I want to be happy. Yes of course I want to be successful. Yes of course I want to be loved.

.............But what is the definition of all above??????

Does happiness comes from success and love? Or being loved can bring you happiness and success? 

What is the real formula to have the power house of those three? 

Good Fights, Bad Fights? Kills a Relationship or Make it Stronger ?

Conflict is a natural part of having an intimate relationship. As couples come back to each other after a fight, in a place of love, with words of forgiveness, the relationship is often stronger for it. It is at least more intimate. The bumpy road of conflict followed by repair is the route to a deeper connection. Now we know our partner's hot buttons very well. And hopefully he knows our tender spots, too. How many of you had make up sex after a fight? I am sure many, I  have done it many times but is that the right thing to do or is just temporarily solution getting horny , dive in and the problem is solved? 

In any relationship, there are good days and there are bad days. For instance, you might want to do something that your partner is completely opposed to, or she might want to go shopping for the apartment when all you want to do is stay at home and relax with the game or a movie. This is part and parcel of being one half of a couple.

When you first got together with your other half, you couldn't stop contacting each other. Whether it was on the phone, via text messaging or using e-mail and other online messenger systems, speaking to each other almost every hour. That’s made you feel closer to that person and start building this safety net , trust and desire. You think this person is the one. You think you will never fight, arguing or in some cases insulting each other but people are different and relationship is a full time job for the rest of your life. Now and again, however, your differences might become more serious and can lead to a breakup.

But how can you tell if your fights are "good fights," the kind that will eventually help you grow closer, or "bad fights," the kind that chip away at your bond and be the reason to break your love? 

When you have your first small fight what is the outcome? . The outcome of a fight may not be what we bargained for, but two individuals sharing a life will have many opportunities to compromise.

Can small fights lead to serious relationship doubt and question our love to each other or can they be a platform sample of what really important in a relationship is?

We always want to be right even if we are not at the specific fight, argument or situation but we try to make our point and to win the battle. I won’t lie or hide and say  yes  i am totally that person that when an argument occurred i always try to prove and stand by my opinion and make my point clear right or wrong but in a relationship should not be in that extremely  and it will be better if you losing up especially when you are wrong and instead of trying to make a point and be stubborn,  should  we just say “ this is my opinion and i wanted you to know what i think about but yes i think you are right and i appreciate your feedback”…easy isn’t and the conversation is closed and we moved on.

We just have to remind ourselves that it's not who wins the match that matters, it's how the game is played. Reminding yourself that love can return is the best way to insure that you have good fights.

Fights are easy to start but are they necessary when you love someone and how can we avoid them and meet the happy middle?

Why Men Pay for Sex?

Why Men pay for sex?

I have always been curious. WHY? 

I always thought that Men who pay for sex are homely looking and couldn't get a piece of the pie for free, he is lonely, insecure either with his penis size, simply with himself or he is just a control freak. But then I thought, do guys ever really get sex for free and what is the price that they are paying for?

Why do MEN insist on paying a woman who cares nothing for them to keep company and get you rocks off?

I understand that when you had one line and one too many drinks you feel like a “Superman" and the only thing that’s missing is Baked Banana inside the cherry pie.....but where does the desire comes from to call a hooker? Is it because she brings no emotional baggage to the table or bed as the case may be; Loneliness…….. They don’t judge you, they never have negative feedback, she won’t control you or try to fix you because she doesn’t give a  FUCK instead she will encourage  you to take another line so you can stay longer and pay more. You don't have to listen to her problems, she listens to yours; she is never in a bad mood (depending on the quality).

I can understand that best of all is because she can give most porn stars run for your money in the sack, suck your little penis for hours and all you have to do is gives up a few hundred bucks. Not a bad investment, right?

Do you prefer paying a hot woman to give you exactly what you want without complaining and in that way you know what her intentions are right from the start and you can't fault her for it. Or because to these women, you are the greatest lover, you have the greatest penis and you can do no wrong? Or because you are so insecure with your performance and scared shitless to deal with real world emotions and face intelligence? 

What is the reason and is it the price too high?