Type of Women That Most Men Come Across

Appearance in this case is not everything!



Sex with a beautiful woman is a dream that potentially every straight man at some point of his life was able to come true. It is wrong, however, to believe that the sexual skills of a man is measured against the number of beautiful women is fascinating between the sheets.
But does it really the sexiest women give more pleasure to a man or is it overrated?

There is a few type of women that most men come across:

1.The woman who tries too hard

2. The woman who is afraid.

3. The woman, who did not move.

4. The woman who is trying to do something.

5. The woman who knows what she's doing.

The Less attractive woman the better sex experience you can get because she try hard to pleasure the Man. So if you don't go for super model every time you are looking for sex or attention you may happen to experience better sexual satisfaction.   

Think about it..........

What Women Want in a Man

What makes women happy? Hot sexy guy? Great listener or good talker? Good lover????Below answers are my opinion, you don't have to agree but you should you read it. You may learn something :-) One thing I know for sure is this doctor seriously need to get out there and instead of confusing men with his advice below he should  really try it first for himself. OK MEN take it from a WOMAN with dating experience. Read his advice and read mine. You tell me which is more acquire it these days.

I read an article today by Dr. M. Gary Neuman, family counselor and author of “Connect to Love,” who, based on his research, gave us some insights on what women want.

http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/5-things-women-want-most-man

DR.M Gray: Time: Of all the things we talk about women wanting, time with their spouse is it. The vast majority of women in happy relationships get 30 minutes of uninterrupted time with their husbands each day. Twenty-four percent of women who claim to be in unhappy relationships spend fewer than five minutes a day with their spouses.

Galina: Seriously. Time. 5 Minutes. Come on. If you are in a relationship how can you possibly spend only 5 minutes with that person. Let's start counting  "Hi honey. How was your day" 1 minute. Grab his ass and give him a kiss 30 seconds. 3 Minutes talk about their day. She have 30 seconds left. Ok going to a shower goodnight. If you really have that type of relationship you should face it you are going to be alone for the rest of your life. But if Doctor M Gray meant 5 minutes of  Hi baby.... Blow job and shot of Tequila I agree with him but I don't think he meant that, so you tell me what kind of woman can give only 5 minutes for her man??? I can tell you, a WOMAN that  is getting it somewhere else but not from your pants. Thank you Dr.M Gray you really know how to approach cheaters. 

DR.M Gray: Time: Appreciation: Nowadays, women take care of the children and make salaries, and they tend to be very underappreciated. Women should be expressive of what makes them feel appreciated, saying, “These are the kinds of things I like … x, y and z.” Men should listen, and women should tune in when their husbands are appreciative.

Galina: Yes of course every woman need appreciation, I can not agree more and most men need to hear what we want  in order to react. I have previous experience in this matter, but sometimes MEN show their appreciation in their own way. I know a lot of women who say " He doesn't appreciate anything I do for him" or " He never do anything I want" Trust me I was one of these women once in my life, but you know what I learned that in a relationship you do things for your partner without expectations and if you expect anything back this is not a real love. If that person loves you she/he will find the way to show you appreciation. One thing you should never forget Appreciation is a wonderful thing: It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well. So boys Show her respect, tell her you love her, call her beautiful, protect her in any way you can.

DR.M Gray:  Understanding: It’s important for women to have men who understand them. It’s also important for women to help men understand how to listen. Men often don’t have a clue they’re being bad listeners.

Women have to sense a time limit to conversation. More often than not, men are sitting there thinking, “When is this going to end?” I would say 15 to 20 minutes, max. Women should say to their husbands, “It’s 8:00 p.m.; I need you to listen until 8:20 p.m.” Women may deserve 10 hours, but most men are not the best at listening to serious, emotional conversations that go on.

Galina: This is absolutely bullshit. MEN DO NOT UNDERSTAND WOMEN AND THEY NEVER WILL. We are different animals. Men pretend to understand  women for few reasons: He doesn't want to be lonely, he wants to get laid, have female opinion so he can argue with someone, feel more powerful, get what he wants, have peace and so and so....but if you missing the vagina you will never understand women,  don't even try and Dr. M Gray I bet you that there is no one woman in this world that ever said "He is perfect" He understand me completely>...and if this woman exist I want to meet her. So MEN, don't take it personally but you will never understand women completely. At one point there will be a moment when you say " I really don't understand women" ...Happened many times isn't??? 

DR.M Gray: Fun: This is one of those things that often goes out the window, especially after the first child is born. All the factors like jobs, rents or mortgages can add to relationship strain. Couples should set up a date night — once every week, even if they are tired — during which they spend a minimum of two hours alone. During this time, the couple should talk about everything BUT work, money and children.

Galina: I agree with Dr.M Gray on this FUN is very important but don't make it feel like a date night and feel awkward make it worth the while. Do something totally out of the ordinary you know better what that is.  

DR.M Gray:Kind Gestures: Hugs, kisses, unexpected telephone calls to say "I love you." Simple things. I suggest five touch points a day for one week — any kind gesture that takes 30 seconds or less. If a man can do this for his partner for one week, both will be amazed at how much better they feel in the relationship.

Galina: Don't make it look as a duty. Do it because you feel it and you want it. Very important to have physical  contact on a daily bases. I love you messages every day is good but sometimes can be annoying  I am not saying that won't make us feel good of course yes but saying it and showing it are two different things so make sure if you say it every day and when you go home you put your feet on a table and wait for  your woman to bring you a beer and tell her I love you, do you really thing that will do the magic...NO, instead when you get home  bring her a flower or a chocolate once in a while and before she even say anything take her clothes off and have crazy sex on a kitchen table.....back up your words and trust me she will bring you not only beer but you will get also a blow job while you are drinking it :-) 

Women Want Most in a Man by my opinion:

1. Man who knows what he wants 
2. Sex 7 times a week minimum
3. Compliments
4. Trust
5. Good conversation
6. Respect
7. Fun
8. Good manners
9. Responsible
10. A man who is ambitious

How to Keep a Relationship Fresh

1.Make love often and with passion. The beauty of a long term sexual relationship is that the intimacy builds over the years. That intimacy makes sex much more genuine, gratifying and fulfilling. It is also an area that is not often put high on the importance scale. Work, career, school, and kids often exhaust our energy so we find it hard to “be in the mood." Make the intimate part of your relation a high priority. Make time for “love sessions." Take time to “make love” rather than just have sex. Use candles, perfume, or whatever that is that get your juices flowing. Like all else in life, intimacy dies if it is not nourished. Feeding it with affection, compliments and time will make it something that feels less like an obligation at the end of a hard day, but something to look forward to.

2.Take advantage of new technology; text and send e-cards. With so many of us pressed for time, why not use technology to “keep in touch” during the day. A compliment, an affection or a quick “Hello, You are being thought of” via text can spark anyone’s day. E-cards are fast, and convenient. There are many sites that allow you to send them for free. You can find any type of sentiment from cute and funny, to serious and romantic or teasingly sexy. The bonus is that you can include a personal message along with it if you’d like.

3.Hold hands, hug and give quick kisses often. Nothing is as good for the soul and the emotional health of a person as the human touch. As teenagers, we hold hands, give quick kisses as hello and goodbye and cuddle as we sit close. Why not keep that sense of youth no matter how old we are or how long we have been have together as a couple? Holding hands keeps a connection and closeness, no matter what we are doing. An enthusiastic hug uplifts us; a quick kiss says “glad to see you”.

4.Date often. Make dates and anticipate them with excitement. Dress up and look your best. Discover a new cologne or perfume. Set the stage as if you are trying to “impress” the way you did at the beginning of the relationship. If your budget limits you to a rental movie at home, change it up. Set out cheese and crackers instead of the usual popcorn. Turn off the lights and let your fireplace illuminate the room. No fireplace? Candles do just as well. The point is to set the atmosphere of a date. The desire to look your best, feel your best and have the best time possible will rejuvenate those feelings of a first date.

5. Write old fashioned love letters. There is nothing like the power of the written word. The idea that a person would sit and attempt to convey their feeling through words is not only a heart warming gesture, but one that can be renewed over and over again through each reread. When you need an emotional lift, you can revisit them and instantly get the emotional recharge. Rereading a partner’s love letters instantly brings you to the intensity when the relationship was young. Writing letters throughout the relationship tells your partner those feelings are still alive and well.

6.Learn something “new” together.

7. Take dance lessons, take an art class or learn to ice skate together! Take a day trip to a new place neither of you have ever visited before. If you look back on your life, you probably connected with people whom you shared new events or experiences, something you experienced together for the first time. Those experiences create closeness. Find something that can be a “first” for the two of you. You might also develop a new interest the two of you can enjoy!


8.Strengthen your art of conversation. If you find yourself with “nothing to talk about anymore”, find something to start the conversation. Fill your partner in on the “funny“ things that happened at work, the gossip; anything trivial and interesting. Remember, we all need to use our partners as a “sounding board," but if that is the only conversation that we are having with our “significant other," even the most sympathetic listener can have a breaking point. Make “sharing your day” a pleasure event, not a dreaded evil.

9. Be a good listener. There still is the time when your partner will need you to be there, just to listen. You have probably heard the joke a thousand times and heard the family issue twice that often, so listening to your partner is not always easy. The extra effort, however, can be priceless. Remember, often people don’t want their problems solved, just a shoulder to lean on. Taking away the burden of “fixing it," might make it easier.

10. Take care of yourself; mind, body and spirit. Be passionate about life. There is truth to the belief that if we nourish the child in us our spirits can stay young, even when our outer body doesn’t. Stay young in mind and spirit. Take care of your health, emotional and physical. It is much easier to keep a relationship young when you exude that aura yourself. Start by keeping yourself “young at heart."

Life Without Affection is Not Worth Living

THE BEST WAY TO HOLD A MAN IS IN YOUR ARMS

Does happiness comes from success and love?

Yes of course I want to be happy. Yes of course I want to be successful. Yes of course I want to be loved.

.............But what is the definition of all above??????

Does happiness comes from success and love? Or being loved can bring you happiness and success? 

What is the real formula to have the power house of those three? 

Good Fights, Bad Fights? Kills a Relationship or Make it Stronger ?

Conflict is a natural part of having an intimate relationship. As couples come back to each other after a fight, in a place of love, with words of forgiveness, the relationship is often stronger for it. It is at least more intimate. The bumpy road of conflict followed by repair is the route to a deeper connection. Now we know our partner's hot buttons very well. And hopefully he knows our tender spots, too. How many of you had make up sex after a fight? I am sure many, I  have done it many times but is that the right thing to do or is just temporarily solution getting horny , dive in and the problem is solved? 

In any relationship, there are good days and there are bad days. For instance, you might want to do something that your partner is completely opposed to, or she might want to go shopping for the apartment when all you want to do is stay at home and relax with the game or a movie. This is part and parcel of being one half of a couple.

When you first got together with your other half, you couldn't stop contacting each other. Whether it was on the phone, via text messaging or using e-mail and other online messenger systems, speaking to each other almost every hour. That’s made you feel closer to that person and start building this safety net , trust and desire. You think this person is the one. You think you will never fight, arguing or in some cases insulting each other but people are different and relationship is a full time job for the rest of your life. Now and again, however, your differences might become more serious and can lead to a breakup.

But how can you tell if your fights are "good fights," the kind that will eventually help you grow closer, or "bad fights," the kind that chip away at your bond and be the reason to break your love? 

When you have your first small fight what is the outcome? . The outcome of a fight may not be what we bargained for, but two individuals sharing a life will have many opportunities to compromise.

Can small fights lead to serious relationship doubt and question our love to each other or can they be a platform sample of what really important in a relationship is?

We always want to be right even if we are not at the specific fight, argument or situation but we try to make our point and to win the battle. I won’t lie or hide and say  yes  i am totally that person that when an argument occurred i always try to prove and stand by my opinion and make my point clear right or wrong but in a relationship should not be in that extremely  and it will be better if you losing up especially when you are wrong and instead of trying to make a point and be stubborn,  should  we just say “ this is my opinion and i wanted you to know what i think about but yes i think you are right and i appreciate your feedback”…easy isn’t and the conversation is closed and we moved on.

We just have to remind ourselves that it's not who wins the match that matters, it's how the game is played. Reminding yourself that love can return is the best way to insure that you have good fights.

Fights are easy to start but are they necessary when you love someone and how can we avoid them and meet the happy middle?

Why Men Pay for Sex?

Why Men pay for sex?

I have always been curious. WHY? 

I always thought that Men who pay for sex are homely looking and couldn't get a piece of the pie for free, he is lonely, insecure either with his penis size, simply with himself or he is just a control freak. But then I thought, do guys ever really get sex for free and what is the price that they are paying for?

Why do MEN insist on paying a woman who cares nothing for them to keep company and get you rocks off?

I understand that when you had one line and one too many drinks you feel like a “Superman" and the only thing that’s missing is Baked Banana inside the cherry pie.....but where does the desire comes from to call a hooker? Is it because she brings no emotional baggage to the table or bed as the case may be; Loneliness…….. They don’t judge you, they never have negative feedback, she won’t control you or try to fix you because she doesn’t give a  FUCK instead she will encourage  you to take another line so you can stay longer and pay more. You don't have to listen to her problems, she listens to yours; she is never in a bad mood (depending on the quality).

I can understand that best of all is because she can give most porn stars run for your money in the sack, suck your little penis for hours and all you have to do is gives up a few hundred bucks. Not a bad investment, right?

Do you prefer paying a hot woman to give you exactly what you want without complaining and in that way you know what her intentions are right from the start and you can't fault her for it. Or because to these women, you are the greatest lover, you have the greatest penis and you can do no wrong? Or because you are so insecure with your performance and scared shitless to deal with real world emotions and face intelligence? 

What is the reason and is it the price too high?

Chocolate, Sex or Beer?

If you had to choose between giving up chocolate , sex or beer for the rest of your life which would it be?

9 Things Women Love To Hear

Number 9

"How was your day?"
When you ask her how her day went, her interpretation is that you are thoughtful and eager to know about her 9-to-5 routine. Be warned though: This question gives her opportunity to talk  about all the little dramas that occurred throughout her day. So be ready to set aside some time to listen to her stories.

Why it makes you look good: To her, it's the thought that counts. Asking about her day shows that you're receptive, interested and open to listening to her. You're giving her an outlet to vent and acting as her confidante. Sure, you might have to listen longer than you want to, but once she's done talking shop, she'll be talking about you
.

Number 8

"I can't believe how sexy you look!"
Straight up, this tells her that you find her attractive, and to a lesser extent, that you want some. But, if you're in a relationship, she'll hear more than that -- namely, that you're still lustfully appreciating her fine ass. No woman could fail to be flattered by that compliment. 

Why it makes you look good: This line is particularly effective in long-term relationships, as you're assuring your woman that she's still hot. In return, this makes her want to share her hotness with you. Any questions? Didn't think so.

Number 7

"How do you feel about [anything]?"
Asking this question tells your lady that you're genuinely concerned about her feelings. Know, however, that you're setting yourself up for long and deep conversation about whatever the topic may be. So don't ask this if you're planning to watch a game that night. 

Why it makes you look good: It's all about showing the compassionate side. Once she understands that you're devoting attention to her it will make all her feelings about you that much more intense. So, if you were just kind of attractive before, you'll become a stud in her eyes. If you were a friend before, now she'll want more. Get the picture? Oh boy I can talk so much about this topic. Next time. Remind me :-)

Number 6
"You're really smart."
By acknowledging her intelligence, you're communicating that you recognize her brains, as well as her figure. This makes a woman feel appreciated for all her assets, not just the parts that fit in a thong or a bra. It's a mark of respect from her man. 

Why it makes you look good: First off, she'll appreciate that you are capable of thinking above the waistline. Women love a cordial man, and there's no better way for you to show off your gentlemanly qualities than to tell her she is  smarts...

Number 5

"You're great in bed."
Simply put, this line makes her feel like a goddess. Hearing it suggests that her sexuality has been elevated in your eyes and makes her feel like she really knows how to satisfy her man

Why it makes you look good: Praising her performance indicates that for you, sex isn't just about getting your rocks off. You appreciate every aspect of the experience itself, particularly the extra efforts she puts towards it.

Number 4

"I want to spend my life with you."
This is a heavy line; it's not many degrees away from proposing to her. So be prepared for the consequences. But also keep in mind that risk often carries reward -- once you tell her this she'll be doing mental back flips of joy. Other phrases that work in a similar vein but are less committal are, "Only you can make me so happy," and, "I wouldn't want to be with anyone else." Use your words wisely and especially in these sentence WE Women don't forget these phrases...like EVER.  

Why it makes you look good: All women love to hear a formal expression of enduring commitment from their man. Make us feel more secure in our relationship.

Number 3

"You're my best friend."
You're telling her how you feel above and beyond a sexual context. It means you've placed value upon your friendship and want to do things with her that other men may not have had an interest in. She'll feel overpoweringly connected to you after you say this. 

Why it makes you look good: These words change you from being just the guy she's doing to the guy she is doing things with, too. One thing you should be careful this is very tiny sensitive line between hot & passionate sex and friendship cuddling with 5 minutes quickie. Once you cross on a friendship side it will take sometime to get back if you want more actions.

Number 2

"You'll make a great mother."
Most women look forward to having babies one day. Most also agonize over whether they will do a good job of it. By saying this you affirm to her that she'll be a success. . Coming from her man, these words will make her the happiest she can be. 

Why it makes you look good: Indirectly, you just confirmed to your woman that you're thinking about making babies with her. Obviously, this is great music to her ears. From this point onwards, she'll be ever more receptive to your advances.

Number 1

"You make my life complete."
This tells her that she's the only one for you. All women want to hear this line from their men. It says that you've accepted her completely and that she has become an essential, indispensable ingredient in your life. That's an unbelievably gratifying thought to your woman -- she'll be smiling for days. 

Why it makes you look good: This basically says that you need her in your life, and that you couldn't live without her. Women fall head over heels for this kind of stuff.

3 KINDS OF SEX ALL MEN CRAVING

You may be convinced that you have your man's carnal code cracked, but there isn't just one way to unlock his passion.


2. Animalistic Sex

His mood: When men win at sports, even when they're just watching a sport and their team triumphs, or when they have success like a promotion at work, testosterone levels tend to go up.The reason? His alpha instincts are taking over. He is dying to throw you (gently) down on the bed for a serious pleasure session. 

How to rock his world: When he's flushed after a win slowly start stripping your clothes across the room  in his eye line but out of his reach. Just looking at your naked body can further raise a man's testosterone, feeding his desire,  Let him watch you touch your own erogenous zones, which will make him hot and give you satisfaction too. When you've tortured him for a few minutes, let him get his hands on the championship prize: YOU.
Then initiate a primal move that fuels his craving. Standing sex, where he holds you up against a wall with your legs wrapped around his lower back, gives him an animalistic challenge.

Kick it up a notch by letting yourself revel aloud about how hot he's getting you or tell him a specific thing you want him to keep doing because it feels so good.Verbally boosting his ego can help build orgasmic intensity for you both.

2. Supersensual Sex

His mood :Women aren't the only ones who desire slow-burn sexual intimacy. In fact, one of the biggest complaints among men is that women don't touch them enough during sex, which is a common way of maintaining emotional closeness in a relationship.

How to rock his world:

Next time you try anything new, take him home and introduce a sensual new move that feeds a mental and physical connection, like the Kama Sutra position Yab-Yum. Here's how: Sitting in his lap face-to-face with your legs wrapped around each other's back, you and your guy can gaze into each other's eyes as your hands roam freely. All the while, your private parts press sensually against each other, furthering intimacy. This is an all-access position that allows him to see and touch your entire body

3.Don't-Lift-a-Finger Sex

His mood clues: Chances are, if your guy is dealing with a demanding boss, stress is likely to make him crave low-maintenance sex.Unfortunately, today's high expectations for male sexual performance may instead heighten his stress level. Since men are so programmed to work for sex, he'll feel relieved of performance pressure when you catch him off guard with this low-maintenance brand of sex.

How to rock his world: When you sense your man is stressed, help him unwind by telling him he doesn't even have to get off the sofa.Stripping off his shirt and slowly kissing him from his neck down to his waistline, followed by some below-the-belt action,slide onto his lap in reverse cowgirl position with your hands balanced on his thighs for support. Much like doggie-style, he'll be able to revel in watching your tush and touching your breasts — but without expending any lower-body energy. Just remember to squeeze your PC muscles as you thrust because it can help you both have bigger, better orgasms more quickly.

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Why Regular Sex in Monogamous Relationships is important

So what's the big deal about sex? Some want it, some don't. Truth is, there are all sorts of things in life we want, but don't necessarily get. Why then, is sex perceived by so many as some sort of human right or fundamental ingredient in a relationship?

As it turns out, the way we are engineered as human beings reveals that sex has value that transcends the bodily pleasures we have come to enjoy as a result of these activities! There are several reasons why regular sexual activity in our primary, committed relationships is important. Read on to discover what some of these reasons are.

Sex Releases Bonding Hormones

In romantic love, when two people have sex, Oxycontin is released, which helps bond the relationship.When it is released during orgasm, it begins creating an emotional bond -- the more sex, the greater the bond.

Sex Can Create a Unique Spiritual Connection

Sex is unlike any other communication available to us. There is no other form of communication that joins so many aspects of who we are with another. In a single act - making love - we are able to share our bodies, our mind and our spirits with another. With sexual intimacy, we can communicate on various levels simultaneously and we can do this with or without the use of words - achieving one of the most complicated and in many ways evolved form of communication with another. Having sex, in and of itself, does not achieve this form of spiritual connection. The spiritual piece of the connection is having something deeply personal, emotional, and heartfelt to communicate with your body.

Sex is a Form of Communication

Sex is a way of communicating a desire to be close, loving and connected. This type of communication requires the same level of attentiveness, listening, and clarification as talking does. Like verbal communication, there is room for misunderstanding and disconnection.

Great Sex Comes From Great Relationships

Sex is not the key to love; love is the key to sex. A great relationship can create great sex, but great sex (alone) can not create a great relationship. The more you develop your emotional connection, the more satisfying and pleasurable your physical connection can be.

Sex Is a Natural Desire

My suggestion for great relationship is to have SEX 5-7 times a week. This do not include casual BJ's , touching and playing sexy games. Only count when you have the actual intercourse and two bodies become one.

Life the way you see it!

Don’t believe what your eyes are telling you. All they show is limitation. Look with your understanding, find out what you already know, and you’ll see the way to fly. Believing in yourself and find happiness in your soul is the  only way to live happy life.

What is your deal breaker?

He is looking for LOVE. He finally meet this amazing sexy woman, intelligent and funny but there is one thing he consider as a deal breaker, she doesn't watch Sport channels.  Are you willing to give up your favorite Sunday night football for LOVE?

                                               

Be that strong woman!

There is beauty in a woman whose confidence comes from experiences; a woman who knows she can fall, pick herself up, and move on.A strong woman knows how to keep her life in line. With tears in her eyes, she still manages to say, Nah, I'm fine.You have to accept whatever comes and the only important thing is that you meet it with courage and with the best that you have to give.

Sex Games? Of course who doesn't love them?

Dress. Undress.

Sex Games? Of course who doesn't love them? Skimpy undies only go so far. Most of us wear them, and see our partners in them, on a regular basis. So, I ask, where’s the imagination? Tired of seeing your guy in the same old Hanes – or whatever it is he wears (that’s how desensitized you are to his underwear),  What you do , kick it up a notch by asking him to put on a few items lying around the house. Like a hard hat and a tool belt and … nothing else. That night I promise you it's going to be out-of-this-world incredible.

How to have the guts to go talk to pretty Woman?

Yesterday friend of mine asked me a question "How to have the guts to go talk to pretty woman"?
I thought this question was interesting subject to share. 
First you have to be confident and no showing that you are nervous. When you are at the bar and you see HER standing there all shiny , pretty and sexy full with confidence you feel powerless and without confidence and think that she is not a human :-) Well she is a human and maybe a smart one ( if you are lucky) ... Before you even approach her with any words make sure you play the eye game and the incidental touch. 
Example: There she is standing at the bar alone or with friends doesn't matter You walk up to the bar (make sure that you don't show your interest  at any  time, just like she is not there ignore her but stand strong). Get next to her  as close as possible and have a body contact such as ( hand, shoulder etc..) look at her and  say" I apologize if I disturb you just a minute to get my drink" wait for her short response and then immediately take your eyes off her and call the bartender. Turn your head torch her and give her a smile. Don't say anything. WHY? because you are full with emotions, you are nervous and horny and whatever you say to her at this time can be the turn off ,very stupid or wrong and you can lose your chance in 5 seconds. " Do you have a lighter" , " It's a warm night tonight" or "I like your pink cocktail"  these pick up lines won't ever work. Wait for your drink patiently and look around. When the bartender come with your drink give him a sign to make her a drink and pay for it before even arrive. Don't tell her you got her a drink the bartender will Trust me. So before you walk away with your drink say to her " Thank you for your patience" ....and walk...keep walking. Now when you have your drink and you did pass the first stage of your anxiety make sure that you chose a place that you can face her. What are her thoughts at this moment I'll tell  you: "Ok he was very polite, bought me a drink and walked away" WTF or  "He is cute I don't understand why he didn't talk to me more" ? or " I look so sexy why he is not interested in me"? ....Now she is the one without or less confidence no matter how FINE she is....and for you don't move...YET. Talk to your friends and pretend that she is not there ...but remember this is time sensitive so before she lose interest make sure you make a move in a couple of minutes make eye contact with her and smile. If she smile  back at you get your ass of the chair no matter how much your balls hurts and go get her. Now what you did is you overpower her with your fake confidence ( which she doesn't know that you have none) , with a surprise drink and with your good manners. Now the only one thing is left for you to GET A HARD ON. 
If you accomplish that you are my hero. First line must be short joke so you can break the ice and make her laugh but nothing stupid. Pick your words carefully. We love man who make us laugh, compliments us and if he is good in bed the deal is sealed. Remember you are a winner already with all your above actions, so now the only thing you have to worry about is what you gonna make for breakfast :-) 

Go get her TIGER!

6 Simple Tips for simultaneous orgasms

6 Simple Tips for simultaneous orgasms
Take enough time to "prepare" for sex.

First:  various love games. Do not get stuck on the same thing. Do not be afraid to try.
Second tip is to enjoy what is happening, without thinking about the finish, you risk a lot to do remote.
Third : Spend equal attention to all parts of the body and do not ignore the erogenous zones.
Forth: is to choose the correct posture, the most profitable - each pair has its own position and his/her sex game.
Fifth: Do not be afraid to show how best they can meet favorite. Only you know what brings you the greatest pleasure and what less.
Six: Sex toys? Of course! Do not waste time, buy them with or without reason.

What's Your Love Type?

Do you prefer fun date with lots of activities or quiet date with lots of opportunities for conversation?  A lot of times when people are  dating casually they tend to date more than one person I always wonder why. Why do we call this dating if it can just simply be booty call???? There are two kinds of first date types: A very private person and the one that opens up very quickly. I think that less is more and if you say everything on a first date what else is left to say for the second one? if there is a second one. Take the advice if you are interested in the person you are with instead of talking out of your ass all night in order to make an imprecision or just to get laid - simply observe and make sure that when you open your mouth you actually say something. When you go on a first date make sure that you know what you want if you prefer to take things as they come play it well so you don't waste time or plan everything ahead of time. A lot of people follow certain rules on a first date (like the guy should pay for the first date or no sex until the third date) bullshit....just go with the flow. Yes the guy should pay on a first date, second, third .....why not if he invited you and the person who says "I never have sex on a first date" is the first person to get unzip and get laid, why because your vagina or penis are hard to control when they are hungry. They are like a cherry blossom in April. Once they bloom they need liquid to survive. What is going to happen if you know that there is no tomorrow and you are on a date full with rules??? Are you going to miss good sex, sensensual  orgasm and beautiful sunrise...??? I don't think so. Stop thinking about rules that some stupid miserable person created while jerking off at midnight on Saturday night watching Dr.Phil. Live your life to the fullest. 

When evaluating a first date, do you ask yourself: "Can I see a future with that person"? or "Did I have a good time"? . These are two very different things. Make the difference and you will get the answer. 

Have fun :-) 

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PICTURE PERFECT

When you are in NYC I am sure you have seen the street artist drawing a portrait. Once I was there with my boyfriend at the time and did it and took about 30 minutes to complete. Turn out beautiful and made him smile........BUT ladies let's be honest no man like to witness the process for picture perfect. Men have no patience for that.MEN likes to see the finish product. So when you are with the man that you really care about and want to keep him for a long time make sure that he always see picture perfect. Wear make up ,sexy clothes and sometimes mop the floor in a high heels and while you doing this make sure that you use POP language.Why not?  He maybe won't say how he feels about that but for sure he will show you his affection. Men are good reading woman body language when she is talking without words.

Are Men All the same? ........not really but one thing you know is that " You are fabulous" SHOW IT, USE IT, OWN IT!!!

WHAT ARE YOUR SEX EXPECTATIONS?

All couples enter marriage with their sex expectations regarding frequency, endurance, performance, sex positions, locations, and what types of sex you will engage in. The stereotype is that most men dream about their wife being that wonderful classy lady in public but a woman gone wild in bed ready to attempt any sexual act possible. In reality, many times it is the wife who has these sexual flames of desire for her husband and how he will be a Tarzan in the bedroom. It is not always the man who has the strongest sexual desires.

Almost every couple wants a healthy and fun sex life. How about you? Why are you putting off talking about your sex expectations? These expectations can be silent for years in a marriage creating frustrations that show up in many areas of the marriage. I disagree with those that say sex is not that important in marriage and relationship. If it is not important why can it create serious frustrations and issues in marriage? Also, if it is not important then why do couples with good sex have healthier relationships and lives? Research proves that good sex helps make a good marriage.

What are your Sex expectations?

Be the type of person you would like to meet.

I am Bulgarian. I have an accent and sometimes I spell wrong but so what? I don’t have psychology degree I speak out loud and I have my opinion about life, relationship and sex. I speak from experience, street smart and knowledge that you can’t learn from books but one thing I know that many people come to me for advice of counseling. Couples, individuals, men, women, teens. I think that everyone deserves to feel better. Unfortunately life happens and throws us a curve ball. This can leave us feeling out of sorts. We try to put our life "back together" as best we can seek help from family or friends. Sometimes this is not enough. This is where I come in, helping you find a way to make a run even if life pitches you one curve ball after another. At times it will be difficult and you may feel like you struck out but with practice, guidance, and uncovering inner strength you can make a run maybe even a homerun. The only people who are mad at me for speaking the truth are people who are living a lie. I will keep speaking the truth.There’s nothing more badass than being who you are.

How a conflict can strengthen your relationship

When a conflict occurs it is usually about being  right or wrong on a subject that you think you know more about than your partner or simply different visions on a specific subject you argue about.You think that if you don't take control of the decisions been made or direction you are going it will have negative effects. This is absolutely normal defense reaction you feel like you have been attack and you have to protect yourself. Well instead of make it the situation worst and keep fighting about and trying to defend your point try to understand the other side and the reason of his/her opinion. What would you win when you lose? Peace. That doesn't mean that you have to give up and let the other side  win just to have peace, you have to express yourself and speak out and if the other side  still doesn't get the point take a deep breath and walk away for 10 minutes the argument is pointless and don't ask yourself why he/she doesn't understand we are all different people with different visions we see things differently just think if the argument is really worth it. You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. After 10 minutes alone come back to your partner and you will have the answer if the fight was worth it or not. One thing you will really learn about each other is respect of each side opinion, strong communication skills and how much you love each other to argue about stupid things. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

DRESS FOR HIM IF YOU WANT GOOD SEX

One simple tip  for the ladies if you want to have a healthy sexual relationship: Always dress for him first, ask him if you look good and if he like what you are wearing. Men feel more powerful and happy when he knows that his opinion matter. His approval is important not only for you but for himself as well. When you get the answer : "Yes honey you look fantastic"  make sure you give him a kiss , grab his butt and walk away with a smile. Mission accomplished for him. First he feels like a Superman because you asked his opinion and you actually agreed,second he knows he has a hot chick next to him and he loves it. So you know now that you are sexy for your man, second he won't have a eyes for other women and third get ready for a good night and great sex .....Go girl