I thought this question was interesting subject to share.
First you have to be confident and no showing that you are nervous. When you are at the bar and you see HER standing there all shiny , pretty and sexy full with confidence you feel powerless and without confidence and think that she is not a human :-) Well she is a human and maybe a smart one ( if you are lucky) ... Before you even approach her with any words make sure you play the eye game and the incidental touch.
Example: There she is standing at the bar alone or with friends doesn't matter You walk up to the bar (make sure that you don't show your interest at any time, just like she is not there ignore her but stand strong). Get next to her as close as possible and have a body contact such as ( hand, shoulder etc..) look at her and say" I apologize if I disturb you just a minute to get my drink" wait for her short response and then immediately take your eyes off her and call the bartender. Turn your head torch her and give her a smile. Don't say anything. WHY? because you are full with emotions, you are nervous and horny and whatever you say to her at this time can be the turn off ,very stupid or wrong and you can lose your chance in 5 seconds. " Do you have a lighter" , " It's a warm night tonight" or "I like your pink cocktail" these pick up lines won't ever work. Wait for your drink patiently and look around. When the bartender come with your drink give him a sign to make her a drink and pay for it before even arrive. Don't tell her you got her a drink the bartender will Trust me. So before you walk away with your drink say to her " Thank you for your patience" ....and walk...keep walking. Now when you have your drink and you did pass the first stage of your anxiety make sure that you chose a place that you can face her. What are her thoughts at this moment I'll tell you: "Ok he was very polite, bought me a drink and walked away" WTF or "He is cute I don't understand why he didn't talk to me more" ? or " I look so sexy why he is not interested in me"? ....Now she is the one without or less confidence no matter how FINE she is....and for you don't move...YET. Talk to your friends and pretend that she is not there ...but remember this is time sensitive so before she lose interest make sure you make a move in a couple of minutes make eye contact with her and smile. If she smile back at you get your ass of the chair no matter how much your balls hurts and go get her. Now what you did is you overpower her with your fake confidence ( which she doesn't know that you have none) , with a surprise drink and with your good manners. Now the only one thing is left for you to GET A HARD ON.
If you accomplish that you are my hero. First line must be short joke so you can break the ice and make her laugh but nothing stupid. Pick your words carefully. We love man who make us laugh, compliments us and if he is good in bed the deal is sealed. Remember you are a winner already with all your above actions, so now the only thing you have to worry about is what you gonna make for breakfast :-)
Go get her TIGER!
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